What is the deal with today's society??

it seems like every1 is all about badgering the teen parents of todays society and i would like to kno why...i read a queston titled " Why do so many teenagers/young people have babies?" and everyones answer was so mean and was like they are trying to say teens dont make good parents...they always end up on WIC or welfare or medicaid or how the child becomes a victim and is hurt or going to have a horrible life if his/her parents are teenagers well i am one of those teenage parents and that hurt me to read that. i am not on welfare or WIC or medicaid! i was 17 when my first baby was born i DIDNT drop out of school! i worked my *** off and went to school just to pay for daycare so i could graduate on time with my fellow clmates i have NO help from any1 the father of my baby and i got married after HS and we both worked and he went to college and worked full time to get his nursing degree and SOME DAYS(not always)i think we are better off than those who wait til their 30s